Tsuruno Takeshi is a multi-talented entertainer, but he is also a father of five children, a qualified nursery teacher, and a current university student. Despite his busy schedule, he took two childcare leaves to actively gain experience as a father, and then jumped into the world of early childhood education, working as a part-time kindergarten teacher. He is also continuing his studies at the Faculty of Child Psychology at university. This is a series in which Tsuruno, a “senior father” who has experience in the nursery field, talks about his own experiences and realizations, and gives “encouraging advice” to the worries of fathers and mothers who struggle with child-rearing every day.
This time, Haru, a member of With Class Mama, shared the voices he received on his SNS that said, “I would like to hear your opinions and advice from Tsuruno, who is also a male nursery teacher and works in the nursery field.”
Q. What do you think about the voices that say that you don’t want male nursery teachers to help with changing diapers and clothes?
Haru: In recent years, sexual crimes committed by male nursery teachers have become a problem, and parents often come to us with various concerns. Some parents of girls say they don’t want male nursery teachers to help them change diapers or clothes, and some say they will avoid nurseries with male nursery teachers. What do you think about these public comments?
Tsuruno Takeshi: I fully understand the parents’ feelings, but it’s very sad.
I want to avoid putting the many other male nursery teachers who work hard in a worse position.
Violence against children is a hateful crime that should never be tolerated. And every time I hear news that the perpetrator was a nursery teacher or sitter, my heart aches and anger wells up inside me.
When an incident occurs at a nursery school that parents trust as a “safe place” and leave their children there, it’s only natural that they will feel distrust and anxiety toward the nursery school and male nursery teachers. Solutions and countermeasures are important issues that often need to be properly addressed, such as the system of the government and the nursery school, and hiring methods, so I don’t think I should talk about it easily here. However, it is very sad and something that must be avoided if the crimes committed by a few childcare workers and sitters make things tougher for the many other male childcare workers who work hard, leading to some people quitting their jobs. Haru: I’ve heard that some daycare centers have a rule that “male childcare workers are not allowed to change diapers.” While I suppose that can’t be helped, it also makes me feel uneasy. Continue reading from the source
>>2 >>3 That’s a separate issue. First of all, the safety of children and women comes first, so it’s strange that a man’s right to become a nursery teacher or a woman’s right is given priority. Even overseas, nursery teachers and teachers are all women. Because children’s human rights are generally greater than men’s desire to become nursery teachers. When there are male nursery teachers, the burden of changing diapers falls on other female nursery teachers.
Men make money, women rely on their mothers-in-law to do housework and childcare, and things used to work this way, but now this system is like, “I don’t want to have mother-in-law problems!” and they refuse to live together and both work, and the housework and childcare are too hard so I’m going to put my kids in daycare,” lol.
Even in disaster relief efforts, they say that men will inevitably try to touch women under the pretext of rescue, so the law needs to be changed so that only female rescuers can rescue women.
If you are a man who wants to become an elementary school teacher or nursery teacher, you will have to endure strange looks from those around you. I understand that most people take up these jobs because they simply love children, but even so, you have to be prepared to be suspected.
>>27 That’s what it means to like children Anyone who works in a business that involves children, regardless of gender, is a lolicon shotacon Kindergarten teachers, elementary school teachers, middle school teachers, high school teachers They’re all loli shota
We live in a world where complaints about gender differences are considered discrimination. If you want to complain, go against political correctness with all your might.
If there are male daycare workers who assert their rights knowing that children and parents may dislike it, then they’re no good. It’s natural to prioritize the other person’s feelings over your own convenience. There’s no merit to a man going out of his way to do it. Rather, male daycare workers should proactively say, “We won’t do it.” What are you trying to do, you idiots?
If you think there are perverts among them, you’ll feel that way. The only way to make them feel that way is for the nursery teachers and the mothers to communicate with each other and make them think that they’re not perverts.
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