I hate my husband mixing curry! “I mix it carefully for about 20 seconds before eating it” – Wife’s post gets a lot of attention

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0001Hiiii★.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:53:12.07ID:zl/w4sc99
When eating curry, most people don’t mix the roux with the rice, but some people prefer to mix them. Of course, there is no right answer and it is up to the individual eater. However, it seems that arguments sometimes arise between couples and families over how to eat curry. In October, a topic titled “Do you mix curry or not?” was posted on Girls Channel and has been garnering a lot of attention. “I’m not one to mix things up. So I hate seeing him mix curry and rice together,” wrote the thread starter, who appears to be unhappy with her husband’s eating habits. (Text: Amane Kotoha)
“If you mix it, it loses the texture of rice.”
“It looks dirty, like leftovers.”
The thread starter continued: “My husband mixes it carefully for about 20 seconds as soon as it’s served before eating it. I keep telling him I don’t want to see him mix it, but I’ll mix it anyway.”
If I mix it for 20 seconds, the rice will completely absorb the liquid like risotto. On the other hand, there are restaurants in Kansai that serve curry and rice completely mixed together, so it seems there are a certain number of people who prefer to eat it that way. Although it is up to the individual to eat, it must be difficult for the thread starter who doesn’t want to see the curry mixed together. Looking at the comments section, the overwhelming majority of people are in favor of not mixing them. In addition to taste and appearance reasons such as “If you mix it, it loses the texture of rice” and “It looks dirty, like leftovers,” many people also seem to be unaware of how to mix rice together, with some saying, “I’ve just learned for the first time that you can eat rice by mixing it together.” Several people commented that they hate seeing curry mixed up like the poster did. “My husband is like that too. I really hate the clanging and sloshing noise of spoons and plates hitting each other before eating. I try not to see or hear anything.”
“I felt sick when I saw my parents-in-law mixing it all up like a sludgy mess. “I don’t like to mix food”
“I don’t like seeing people mixing food… my kids do it”
In both cases, it seems they are averse to the way their family members eat. One comment said, “When you mix it, it looks like you’re playing with the food,” and even if that’s not your intention, it can give a variety of impressions. Some people commented that they mixed their food when they were children, but stopped mixing it as they became adults, while others wrote, “My parents and teachers taught me not to mix food.” Stirring food is apparently not bad manners, but many people find the look and sound of stirring unpleasant, so consideration is needed, especially when eating out. Because she doesn’t like it when her husband mixes the food… “I pour a lot of curry on top of the rice for my husband’s portion and serve it.”
So what should the OP do if she doesn’t like her husband mixing the food at the table? Although the husband’s reasons were not revealed, those in the comment section who prefer to mix the curry included comments such as, “I mix it because I don’t want the ratio of rice to roux to change,” and “It’s the same as mixing pasta before eating it, I just want the flavor to be evenly distributed,” suggesting that all of them want to eat the curry and rice together. If this is the case for the poster’s husband, the following two comments may be helpful. “Instead of putting half the curry on half the plate and half the rice, why not pour the curry sauce over the whole rice? Isn’t it a pain to distribute it?” “When my husband served curry, I was surprised and didn’t like it when he would mix it all up, so I pour a lot of curry on top of the rice for my husband’s portion.” You can probably hear husbands saying they want to be allowed to eat how they like at home, but even as a married couple, compromises are necessary between each other. The poster may want to arrange it nicely, half rice and half curry, but isn’t that better than having it mixed in front of you for 20 seconds? October 17, 2024 6:00am Career Connection News
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I hate my husband mixing curry!

カレーを混ぜる夫がイヤ!「丁寧に20秒くらい混ぜてから食べます」 妻の投稿に反響 - ライブドアニュース
ネットで「カレー混ぜる派?混ぜない派?」というトピックが立った。トピ主は混ぜる派の夫の食べ方に不満を吐露し、見た人から反響が続々。共感の声のほか、「ライスの全体にルーかけてあげたら?」との助言もあった
【話題】カレーを混ぜる夫がイヤ!「丁寧に20秒くらい混ぜてから食べます」 妻の投稿に反響★4 [ひぃぃ★]
0008Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:55:53.40ID:nI/EtCzM0
>>1
>When eating curry, most people don’t mix the roux with the rice.
There’s still roux left when you eat it.
Maybe the roux wasn’t completely dissolved when you made the curry?
0076Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:05:20.19ID:MBsi6pR00
>>1
I don’t mix curry
The reason is that you can enjoy a variety of flavors if you don’t mix it
This is my personal opinion.
0004Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:54:31.32ID:d7a3w65p0
Is it a happy family where that’s the only conversation they hate, or is it a broken family where they can’t even tolerate something like that?
0014Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:56:24.75ID:990Re6Xi0(1/2)
>>4
The latter
I think he’s mentally immature.
0006Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:55:34.05ID:H1RXdOI+0(1/9)
This is like mixing a parfait, right?
0007Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:55:48.31ID:95oNg+CL0(1/4)
The one who wrote “Kansai” was Jiyuken. Don’t give such a specific example, you idiot.
0009Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:55:54.72ID:B5Fss57G0
If I go to a hot stone bibimbap restaurant, I’ll mix it in.
0010Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:56:03.32ID:En8E3KL50
What a stupid topic that poor people seem to like.
0012Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:56:13.16ID:OklfIZAt0(1/2)
Do whatever you like, the taste won’t change. I fold my udon in four and eat it in one bite, so I don’t slurp it, but the taste won’t change.
0013Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:56:21.35ID:2dPUbxxD0(1/5)
Mixing it is fairly normal but mixing it for more than 20 seconds is crazy lol.
0017Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:56:45.23ID:k/dFuDOi0(1/35)
Mixing it is a way to neutralize the sharpness of the flavor.
0018Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:56:45.96ID:17JXjOZj0
I need to wait a while so that they don’t mix in my stomach.
0019Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:57:11.60ID:L+AQNcyN0
Mix in spices, don’t mix in mommy-style ingredients.
0020Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:57:19.91ID:avfHeGbi0(2/2)
I thought this was a diversion thread during the House of Representatives election.
0021!Security Guard [lv.9] [Sprout].Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:57:22.03ID:90Jm7yEw0(1/8)
Mix Chinese style curry. Don’t mix katsu curry. Mix beef curry after topping it with a raw egg. Mix beef bowl after topping it with a raw egg. Mix cold Chinese noodles. Mix meat spaghetti as well.
0022Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:57:37.92ID:mGxVZxJ60
My husband puts mayonnaise on cold Chinese noodles.
0026Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:58:37.41ID:k/dFuDOi0(2/35)
Since you mix a lot of different ingredients together when you make it, there’s nothing you can’t mix together when you eat it.
0027Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:58:38.80ID:Ql0n7wvy0(1/2)
It’s Koreans who mix things together. A pure Japanese person wouldn’t do something as dirty as mixing things together before eating.
0037Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:00:05.75ID:UDq/VSOj0
>>27
You don’t mix the egg on rice either?
0029Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:58:55.18ID:ZeQFyNzb0
Japanese people mix it all up in their mouths to make a bowl of rice.
0030Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:59:10.67ID:X31RDbw00(1/6)
Hayashi rice isn’t usually mixed.
0031Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:59:16.44ID:tR/DPq/R0(1/5)
If you really want to eat with me, wear earplugs and only look at your own plate.
0032Security Guard [lv.11].Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:59:17.16ID:M6+sIvDt0
Which do you prefer, the ones that just mix together even when you don’t intend for them to?
0033Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:59:19.26ID:CA00SWg40
These people are just complaining about life in general, just because the episode they’re presenting is about curry.
0034Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:59:23.67ID:tKlbuS4W0
I don’t know if you’re stupid or just boasting, but since you know it, why don’t you just mix it in from the beginning?
0035Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 19:59:26.27ID:k/dFuDOi0(3/35)
It’s a must to put mayonnaise on it while it’s cold.
0039Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:00:19.32ID:FH9qUhNE0(1/17)
Mixing food together is the second most unpleasant thing to eat, so I understand how you feel.
0041Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:00:27.29ID:7HC+hX6v0(1/2)
As long as you’re not a loud eater or a dog-eater, that’s fine.
0042Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:00:37.20ID:2dPUbxxD0(2/5)
It’s a perfectly normal feeling to look at Maje Maje and think, “Well, he’s not Korean…”
0045Security Guard [lv.7] [Sprout].Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:00:58.71ID:rdGxwNSi0(1/2)
Response to previous thread
Even if saffron rice is served, it’s a place where several types of curry are served in small portions, so they’re not mixed
Multiple curries get mixed together lol
Also, cooked rice is mixed before being served. It’s ridiculous that you can mix it in a bowl without stirring it lol.
0046Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:01:05.71ID:tR/DPq/R0(2/5)
If that bothers you then get a divorce.
0047Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:01:28.83ID:IsXra8c/0
My wife will join in, I won’t do anything so vulgar.
0048Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:01:46.39ID:7HC+hX6v0(2/2)
I don’t think most people know how Koreans eat.
0053Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:02:30.58ID:T8ZUi+U10
The worst one is the wife who publicly executes him on social media.
0055Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:02:39.70ID:8UJ8buj80(1/2)
It’s not vulgar or anything, but I couldn’t put a raw egg in curry. Where is that custom from?
0064!Security Guard [lv.9] [Sprout].Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:03:32.21ID:90Jm7yEw0(2/8)
>>55
Japan.
0071Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:04:47.55ID:suPU2WN70
>>55
( °∀°) It’s true. If you want to add a curry to your meal, the standard is set by the initiation that you have to have a soft-boiled egg. ( °∀°) Sake
(/◎\) Gulp.
0081Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:05:55.87ID:KwstNJTW0(1/4)
>>55
Reheated eggs are delicious.
0060Security Guard [lv.12] [Sprout].Oct. 19, 2024 (Sat) 20:03:03.10ID:HTFNe/1t0
I think it’s fine to eat it however you like,
but personally I don’t like the risotto style.
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Other languages: 【話題】カレーを混ぜる夫がイヤ!「丁寧に20秒くらい混ぜてから食べます」妻の投稿に反響, ¡Al marido no le gusta mezclar curry! Reacciones a la publicación de la esposa “Lo mezclo con cuidado durante unos 20 segundos antes de comer”.

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