Why did an honest girl become a “host addict”? With 10 million yen in accounts receivable and prostitution...the person involved said, “It’s not her parents’ fault, it’s not the family’s fault, and it’s not her own problem.”
0001Capital Region Tiger ★.Oct. 24, 2024 (Thu) 14:22:33.38ID:IX+JslHr9
In response to the problem of “unscrupulous host clubs” that attracted attention last year, the host club industry announced that it would implement self-regulation, including the abolition of “accounts receivable,” which leads to high payments. In addition, police have been stepping up their crackdown by conducting on-site inspections of host clubs across the country and taking more than 200 administrative sanctions. However, there are still many women known as “host-crazy” who continue to pay high prices. The mother also cries out in anguish. Midori, who lives in Tokyo, said, “My daughter just couldn’t believe it. It was like hell,” he recalls. Four years ago, Midori’s daughter started dating a man she met on a dating app, but he actually turned out to be a host. On “Abema Prime,” together with Midori, we discussed the problem of malicious hosts from a parent’s perspective. ■ Midori, whose daughter became a “host addict” Her daughter (20 at the time), a university student living alone, met a man on a dating app and started dating him, who told her, “Actually, you’re working as a host. At first, she was invited by the host club, who said, “It’s cheap, so come and have fun,” and she continued to visit them out of romantic feelings. Within six months, the accounts receivable had ballooned to over 10 million yen, and the parents, begging for forgiveness, paid it on his behalf. The daughter was then taken back to her parents’ home, but disappeared and returned to the host’s house. He was said to have been working at an adult entertainment establishment through the arrangement of a host club. According to Midori, “Because of COVID-19, there were restrictions on student life, so she tried to make friends through a matching app,” she said, talking about how her daughter met the host. “I started dating a 21-year-old man who claimed to be a student, and we became romantically involved. At that time, hosts were treated like idols by the media, so the barrier to entry for ordinary women to go to a host club was lowered. I guess he went there without much thought because he was told the first visit was free.” The daughter was originally a serious and quiet girl, and was good at managing her allowance and part-time job earnings. However, he began to notice something was off about his daughter’s lifestyle, such as “the university contacted me saying that she didn’t have enough credits,” “her room was messy and dirty,” and “she was out going out late at night.” Then his daughter contacted him saying she couldn’t pay the money, and when he discovered what was going on, he was shocked, saying, “I can’t believe it’s my child?” Because he was only 20 years old, he had “no experience of romance, social life, or how to drink alcohol.” “The man baited me, made me drink expensive alcohol, and made me pay an unreasonable amount in accounts receivable.” One day, you are suddenly forced to repay the loan on the closing date. For the full text, see the source. Last updated: 10/24 (Thu) 12:31 ★1 2024/10/24 (Thu) 12:25:33.37 Previous thread.
>>1 The article is based only on the mother’s testimony, so you can only trust half of it. They should also include the daughter’s own testimony. The host’s side may have a side to say too.
>>1 The teachers’ union is entirely to blame. All the illegal part-time jobs today are the teachers’ union’s fault. You idiots should start teaching this kind of thing from elementary school. I’m sick of it.
The host, the parents, the family, the person themselves – everyone involved is to blame for being consumed by this greed. As long as they keep acting like they’re not to blame, this won’t be resolved.
It’s entirely up to the individual. I’m a sex addict too, but it’s entirely their own problem and no one is going to do anything about it, nor is there any need for it.
Women are prostitutes, men are doing illegal part-time jobs, foreigners can do whatever they want, what’s with this bad security situation? Is this a developing country?
I’m glad I hate hosts who make a living by taking money from women as much as Kimota.
I guess people who don’t hate hosts have money to spare, right? I’m poor, so I just think it’s ridiculous that a guy would take my money. I’ve never had a guy invite me out to dinner and we’d split the bill, but if there was, I would never go. I can make more money than a girl, so I just feel like he shouldn’t take her money. Besides, what’s so fun about pseudo-romance? I’d normally make time for someone who likes me and will buy me a meal.
>>26 Do you take pseudo-romance seriously or not? I don’t know, but someone who really loves you wouldn’t ask for a lot of money. This is the same for both men and women. So if they ask for money, cut ties immediately.
Searching for a partner through a matching app, fortunately meeting someone and starting a relationship, but that person works in a cabaret club or host club, is asked to come over, gets hooked on the cabaret club or host club, there were many steps that could have been avoided, yet the tone that says the person is not at fault at all is disgusting.
Seriously, your life is determined by your friendships. I remember a classmate of mine who was a total bookworm in elementary and middle school, but ended up joining the gang and becoming a thug when he started high school.
It’s crazy to do that kind of business with young people. Cabaret clubs and other bars for men at night are targeted at wealthy people. Even the average salaryman probably wouldn’t be treated very well. It’s pretty sneaky to tell them to engage in gay prostitution or whatever if they can’t pay.
She herself was hoping to date a good-looking guy on the dating site, so isn’t it her own fault? She doesn’t like ugly guys, right? There are people who pay tens of millions of yen to watch VTubers through the screen, so if she had fun with a good-looking guy, then I think it’s within the realm of her own responsibility.
If it were a man it’s all his own fault, but if it’s a woman it’s the man’s fault and society’s fault. I’ll protect him, so that’s good. Maybe he just had too much fun?
He has a delusion that the LDP is at the top of the deception and trickery, and when he tries to default on the payment, a secretary from the LDP appears and tells him that if he doesn’t pay, something terrible will happen, and as a thank you he buys him tickets to a party.
Going to host clubs, being crazy about men, etc. are signs of mental illness, and mental illness is hereditary. In other words, the parents who gave birth to such children are to blame. The parents are at fault.
Anyway, I have to file a tax return and pay tax on 10 million yen, and I have to pay the maximum amount for national health insurance, so that’s where I start.
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