A 7-month pregnant woman said she “can’t stop shivering” when an elderly woman scolded her in the priority seat “You young person， stand up！ It’s not right for a young person like you to sit there！”
A post showing a seven-month pregnant woman sitting in a priority seat on a bus when an elderly woman sitting opposite her asked her to stand up has sparked a major online debate. A woman who was on her way to work got off the train crying and shaking uncontrollably. So what happened in the car? We asked the poster, Pine, 25 weeks pregnant (@__pine95), for more details about the situation. ◇◇◇ She got off the bus in tears, “I couldn’t stop shaking” “I was sitting in a priority seat on a crowded bus, and the old lady sitting next to me kept shouting at me, ‘Young person, stand up! It’s not right for a young person like you to be sitting there!’ She kept crying and showing me the “get off the bus” sign, and when I told her I was pregnant she didn’t seem happy, it was too scary.” When Pine reported the heartbreaking incident to x on the 7th, the internet was in an uproar. “This is terrible…” “I wish she had at least said sorry when she found out she was pregnant…” “She lacks imagination” “Even when I’m wearing a maternity mark, she still doesn’t give in, so I’ve given up” “I think she should stop trying to argue back. Many comments were made, such as, “If he gets kicked in the stomach, it’ll be the end for him,” and “I hope so many happy things happen to this person that he’ll forget all these unpleasant things!” Pain continues. “I don’t want to go to work anymore. I don’t know what I’m crying for, I can’t stop shaking. The old lady in front of me told me it was okay and not to cry, which made me cry even more. Thank you.” In the midst of this difficult situation, there were other kind words from those around me. “The driver retorted in a loud voice, ‘There’s no need to stand up!!’ I’m seven months pregnant so the people around me noticed and protected me. I’ll hang in there until my maternity leave!” Priority seats on buses and trains are reserved for the elderly, people with disabilities, pregnant women, people with small children, and people who are sick. Pain was on the bus to go to work. I am seven months pregnant and it is obvious to those around me that I am pregnant. Of course, I was also wearing a maternity mark. “It was an afternoon commute that day, so there may have been a lot of elderly people in particular. When I get on the bus, if I move to a seat at the back, it takes longer to get off, and I’m afraid of steps, so I try to sit as close to the front as possible.” It’s true that there are often steps at the back of the bus. She said that she was suffering from carsickness due to a relapse of morning sickness, so she took her physical condition into consideration and chose to sit in the priority seat. I never expected to be scolded by an older woman. Pain denied that the woman had any malicious intent. “Although many people have criticised the old lady, she claims that young people and foreigners do not realise that they are priority seats and sit in them, preventing those who need them from using them, and that elderly people and children are in danger of falling over, which she finds pitiful. I believe she spoke out to protect people in a position like mine, but I was seven months pregnant and not feeling well so I was surprised and posted.” It takes courage to warn people too. It’s possible that in the crowds, she didn’t notice the maternity signs. On the other hand, harsh language that makes the other person cry or not following up after realizing that she is pregnant gives the impression of lacking consideration. (Omitted).
>>1 You should avoid saying things that will cause stress to pregnant women, even if you have a legitimate reason, and pregnant women should avoid going out and getting involved with them, but the number of elderly people is increasing so much that if you were to seriously respond to every single one of them complaining, it would never end, so it’s better to just ignore them.
>>1 Hmm, I live in the 23 wards, but I use my own car to get around except for commuting. Even if you give the example of a special person who doesn’t have a car… Especially a pregnant woman, right? A husband who neglects his wife and has no right to anything.
>>15 The old man who shoves young people over the head and steals their seat is haunting my neighborhood. I even complained to the city transportation bureau, asking them to either abolish the senior citizen discount or restrict use during commuting and school hours.
It’s fine to show off your pregnancy by attaching a maternity mark or other pregnancy-indicating items to your bag, or to just sit there wearing obvious maternity clothes and not hiding your belly. It’s also good to rub your stomach or waist in pain.
The draft made it difficult to stand, and the priority seat was occupied by an elderly man who looked like he was going hiking, so I couldn’t sit down. This is a walking stick. He also has a climbing stick. I don’t feel like paying social insurance premiums anymore.
She’s blaming people and not listening to their circumstances because she thinks they’re stupid. If the person sitting there was a well-built guy with tattoos, this old hag wouldn’t yell at her out of nowhere.
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