*12/7 (Sat) 12:55 Abema Times Koharu (36 years old) became pregnant in her third year of high school and gave birth to her son Yuya (now 17 years old). According to the Ministry of Education, Culture, Sports, Science and Technology, the number of pregnant students identified by schools in one year exceeded 1,000 in public high schools alone, and more than half of them chose to drop out or transfer to another school. Koharu is one of them. Koharu, who attended a public high school for academic excellence, was careful about contraception when she was in her third year of high school, but was forced to have sex with her partner at the time and became pregnant. This caused my relationship with my parents, which was already bad, to deteriorate even further. At that time, my partner was the only person I could rely on. The baby is due in April, right after graduating from high school. Koharu wanted to graduate while pregnant, but she was not allowed to graduate because she did not have enough physical education credits, and was instead advised to take a leave of absence. They then got married in January, just before graduation. She voluntarily dropped out of high school and gave birth to Yuya. Her husband was a working man two years older than her and apparently had a high income, but their two-year marriage ended shortly after she gave birth to their second child due to repeated domestic violence. After that, my ex-husband stopped providing me with any financial support, and hell began. Koharu said about that time, “I just didn’t have any money. I have to work, but I’m not allowed to do that,” he recalls. It’s hard to find a job with only a junior high school education. The job I finally found as a salesperson paid about 80,000 yen a month. When my child became ill and I had to take more time off work, there were times when my monthly income was only 30,000 yen. In addition to her day job, she worked at a cabaret club at night and somehow managed to make ends meet by cutting down on her sleep. Continue reading ↓ “High school student pregnancy” Why are they forced to voluntarily drop out of school? The person involved: “I have to work, but I only have a junior high school education, so I’m not allowed to do that.”
>>1 The government should forcefully collect child support from her ex-husband. Child support plus fees, with the fees going to the national treasury. Those who don’t pay will be punished by law.
>>1 When she was a senior in high school, she was careful about contraception, but her partner at the time raped her and she became pregnant. You should reflect on your own lack of judgment in being with someone who would force himself on you.
It will be difficult because it will probably have a negative influence on other students and there will probably be a chorus of parents calling for him to quit.
I went to a decent high school, but a classmate of mine took a year off to get pregnant and give birth, then returned and went on to Keio University while raising her child.
If they are young and will have children, the country should take care of them, and they will have about three children. If we want to increase the Japanese population, we have to do that much.
If you do it, it’s your own fault. You can just get your high school diploma so don’t worry about it. It’ll be used as a joke about why you regret having a child.
Well, dropping out because you got pregnant is a strange idea in a world with a declining birthrate, and if it causes problems for women’s career development, then that would be a women’s human rights issue.
>>29 I think it’s the person’s family environment. My classmate also got married while she was still a student, but she got along well with her mother and raised her children together. Her husband is kind and she lives a normal life. She doesn’t get along with her mother, her husband is an abusive scumbag, so it’s hell no matter what happens. If you only have a middle school education, it’s hell.
Even high school students become parents and have to fulfill their responsibilities. Because their real parents raise them with love, people can carry precious things in their hearts.
There is no environment that allows girls to balance their studies with pregnancy, childbirth, and child-rearing. I don’t know what kind of environment I should create.
People often say it’s okay to get a high school equivalency certificate, but the questions are difficult. It’s much more cost-effective to endure going to a low-ranking school for 3 years.
After birth, the parents can take care of the child and send him to school. If your child doesn’t get along with his or her parents, you should give them priority in daycare.
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