0001@Killer Whale ★ Security Guard [lv.30].Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:39:30.60ID:9N+Gxf089
Chiaki Hara (50), an actor and talent who has overcome cancer twice. When she was diagnosed with cervical cancer at the age of 30, she was advised to have a hysterectomy, but she refused because she strongly wanted to give birth. However, at the age of 35, the cancer recurred and she had a total hysterectomy. At this time, she announced her illness and her marriage to a television producer who was one year older than her. (Part 4 of 6)
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I was diagnosed with cancer for the second time at the end of 2009, but I had been dating my current husband for about three years before that and we had been saying, “Maybe it’s time to get married.” In fact, we had even made a promise to visit my husband’s parents’ house the following New Year to visit them if no cancer was found, but that plan was also canceled. When I was diagnosed with cancer a second time, I realized that it was my fault that I had made the disease so bad, and that all I could do was somehow hope to save my life. On the other hand, I was really shocked that I had involved so many people around me. It was really painful for my husband and his parents, who were soon to become my family, to have to share the reality of not being able to have children. I couldn’t stand it any longer, so I told my husband about it, and he said, “You don’t need to think about that at all. Anyway, let’s get better. “I’ll convince my parents, so you don’t have to worry about anything,” he said. He was a man of few words, but he would say things like, “It’s fine just the two of you,” and “Let’s live healthy lives together as a couple,” and I would burst into tears every time he said those things. My husband was one year older than me and was a producer at a television production company. We met on the set of a drama, and since we were close in age, we quickly became friends. I thought, “He’s a nice guy,” and I really liked him, so naturally we started dating. He is usually a quiet person. He doesn’t express himself much, he doesn’t say much, he doesn’t show his emotions, and he’s always the same person. Even when I was hospitalized with cancer, he came to visit me every day, and nothing has changed. I would read a weekly magazine nearby, eat dinner, and then go home, over and over again. For example, I had wondered if they would bring a flower or buy a cake…but nothing had changed and they just came and left. So, I said that jokingly one time. He was like, “I didn’t mean it that way,” and I thought, “Oh, I see.” (Source: 9/22 (Sun) 11:04 Daily Shincho Newspaper) Unable to have children, going bald, becoming fat…but still, Hara Chiaki was supported by her beloved husband. Hara Chiaki.
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I was diagnosed with cancer for the second time at the end of 2009, but I had been dating my current husband for about three years before that and we had been saying, “Maybe it’s time to get married.” In fact, we had even made a promise to visit my husband’s parents’ house the following New Year to visit them if no cancer was found, but that plan was also canceled. When I was diagnosed with cancer a second time, I realized that it was my fault that I had made the disease so bad, and that all I could do was somehow hope to save my life. On the other hand, I was really shocked that I had involved so many people around me. It was really painful for my husband and his parents, who were soon to become my family, to have to share the reality of not being able to have children. I couldn’t stand it any longer, so I told my husband about it, and he said, “You don’t need to think about that at all. Anyway, let’s get better. “I’ll convince my parents, so you don’t have to worry about anything,” he said. He was a man of few words, but he would say things like, “It’s fine just the two of you,” and “Let’s live healthy lives together as a couple,” and I would burst into tears every time he said those things. My husband was one year older than me and was a producer at a television production company. We met on the set of a drama, and since we were close in age, we quickly became friends. I thought, “He’s a nice guy,” and I really liked him, so naturally we started dating. He is usually a quiet person. He doesn’t express himself much, he doesn’t say much, he doesn’t show his emotions, and he’s always the same person. Even when I was hospitalized with cancer, he came to visit me every day, and nothing has changed. I would read a weekly magazine nearby, eat dinner, and then go home, over and over again. For example, I had wondered if they would bring a flower or buy a cake…but nothing had changed and they just came and left. So, I said that jokingly one time. He was like, “I didn’t mean it that way,” and I thought, “Oh, I see.” (Source: 9/22 (Sun) 11:04 Daily Shincho Newspaper) Unable to have children, going bald, becoming fat…but still, Hara Chiaki was supported by her beloved husband. Hara Chiaki.
子どもを産めなくなり、ハゲになり、デブになり…それでも原千晶を支えた最愛の夫からの言葉(デイリー新潮) - Yahoo!ニュース
2度のがんを乗り越えた俳優でタレントの原千晶(50)。30歳で子宮頸がんを発症した時には、子宮の摘出をすすめられたが、出産への強い思いから拒否。しかし、35歳の時にがんが再発し、子宮を全摘出した。
0011Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:46:24.53ID:F/UDEM+C0
>>1
You’re overthinking it.
If I were a woman in the same situation, I would break up with the man.
If you don’t separate things that are fundamental to the life of a living being, there’s no going back.
It’s different for everyone, but that’s what I think.
You’re overthinking it.
If I were a woman in the same situation, I would break up with the man.
If you don’t separate things that are fundamental to the life of a living being, there’s no going back.
It’s different for everyone, but that’s what I think.
0021Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:49:31.87ID:EtefJuFB0
>>1
What do you mean, not even bringing a single flower?
What do you mean, not even bringing a single flower?
>I didn’t mean to.
0025Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:51:19.13ID:/jbJoI8G0
>>1
You seem happy.
It must have been hard, but it’s a good life.
You seem happy.
It must have been hard, but it’s a good life.
0040Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:56:45.33ID:FRCjpCpb0
>>1
You look happy.
You’ve gotten over it.
You look happy.
You’ve gotten over it.
0060Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 14:03:06.01ID:xOo3sAM00
>>1
Beautiful smile.
Beautiful smile.
0002Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:41:08.37ID:Q1cmmpbC0
Wonderful!
0005Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:43:24.60ID:XjCpNjm10
She’s an old lady. Recently, there are a lot of people who used to be on TV who look old.
0049Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:59:40.46ID:rkX2yeoX0(1/2)
>>5
It’s okay to look old. It’s much better than the unbearable look of people who get plastic surgery to try and look younger. People get old.
It’s okay to look old. It’s much better than the unbearable look of people who get plastic surgery to try and look younger. People get old.
0070Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 14:06:10.84ID:L/DxNrSo0
>>5
Look in the mirror too.
Look in the mirror too.
0007Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:44:58.70ID:9i34bWJY0
Baldness is a source of pride. Don’t make fun of me.
0009Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:45:53.61ID:c2J4GQw50
I cried 😭.
0010Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:46:13.30ID:lY1aWOkG0(1/2)
Just put it on. Fassa.
0012Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:46:27.48ID:WUhc4mvd0(2/2)
I think it’s pretty courageous to stick to divorce even though you can’t have children. It feels like you’re throwing your life away.
0020Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:49:25.28ID:A89qZqY00
>>12
I guess that’s what a simple-minded person would think.
A shallow person.
I guess that’s what a simple-minded person would think.
A shallow person.
0028Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:52:51.64ID:wXwgW62+0
>>12
If you get married and find out your wife is infertile, will you abandon her? lol.
If you get married and find out your wife is infertile, will you abandon her? lol.
0104Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 14:21:05.70ID:hTUXykJz0
>>12
If you marry someone for love, you won’t break up
Did you get married because you wanted to have children?
If you marry someone for love, you won’t break up
Did you get married because you wanted to have children?
0016Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:47:12.75ID:5JAgCMCn0
Are you listening, tk?
0017Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:47:53.61ID:7vzkw+jR0
The chemotherapy must have been really tough. It must have been painful.
0018Security Guard [lv.1] [Sprout].Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:48:05.57ID:N+/uD3Oc0
Isn’t he your ray of hope?
0019Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:48:54.54ID:tBfMQZFz0
Huh? Are you talking about me?
0023Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:50:25.94ID:VpnnuAdM0
That’s me.
0024Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:50:34.72ID:Jgm0yfvh0
No woman will talk to a bald, fat old man who can’t have children.
0026Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:51:52.47ID:SWZX4RNy0
He’s a good husband.
0027Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:52:12.03ID:TMO5dpSf0
Fierce Asian Taro.
0029Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:53:12.11ID:XGblp7Ol0
A life of nurturing love together is wonderful.
0031Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:53:36.08ID:rf+mf4Ma0
I know Hara Chihiro.
0032Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:54:12.91ID:onRounCw0
I thought it was about an old man.
0033Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:54:41.24ID:KaIoTrKa0(1/2)
“Even though you’re bald, you’re still wonderful!”
0034Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:54:58.55ID:NsG4pJRX0(1/2)
They are a good couple.
0035Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:55:04.14ID:buIMIRAg0(1/3)
I can’t help it if I can’t have children and I’m going bald because of the chemotherapy, but being fat is not lol. I’m sure I can lose weight if I try lol, or so my husband seems to think.
0082Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 14:09:53.43ID:guJbfCTH0
>>35
During chemotherapy, they give you high-calorie fluids via IV to maintain your strength. Your body will swell and become fat.
During chemotherapy, they give you high-calorie fluids via IV to maintain your strength. Your body will swell and become fat.
0037Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:55:47.19ID:KaIoTrKa0(2/2)
My husband is a really good guy.
0038Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:55:59.94ID:fk67HlT70
He’s a nice guy. A good person is silent.
0039Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:56:22.64ID:CPeJ0hDE0
Being bald has nothing to do with it.
0042Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:57:09.08ID:cI5sw0/X0
I wish Japan made it easier to adopt children.
0047Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:58:32.02ID:NsG4pJRX0(2/2)
>>42
If that happens, more people will start asking, “Why don’t you adopt a child?”
If that happens, more people will start asking, “Why don’t you adopt a child?”
0091Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 14:15:52.01ID:QwbkSCJs0(3/5)
>>42
Apparently they easily adopted children abroad
An orphanage in Shinjuku.
Apparently they easily adopted children abroad
An orphanage in Shinjuku.
0044Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:57:37.50ID:nGFF8NCp0
Bald? Fat?
Are you talking about us?
Are you talking about us?
0046Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 13:57:49.28ID:fzcjTCPP0
She’s become quite the grandma.
0054Anonymous @I’m sorry.Sep. 22, 2024 (Sun) 14:02:00.30ID:6ezG8paP0
It’s also a virtue to be able to meet good people.
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