0001nita★.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:18:34.88ID:k+yTtaDs9
In July, a man in his 40s with mild intellectual disabilities who had applied to a private matchmaking event listed on the Tokyo Metropolitan Government’s website was turned down because he was deemed unfit to participate in the event, which requires him to be “mentally and physically healthy,” as stated in the participation rules, and because of the organization’s lack of proper organization. This could go against the “provision of reasonable accommodation” that businesses are required to provide under law and Tokyo ordinances to accommodate requests from people with disabilities, provided that the burden is not too heavy. (Okuno Kai)
◆An event introduced on a marriage support website run by the Tokyo Metropolitan Government
“I didn’t think I’d be able to participate. I was hurt.” A man who works as an office worker in Tokyo said this and bowed his head. Although he has a mild intellectual disability, he graduated from a special needs school (now a special needs school) and has been working as a contract employee for over 20 years, living alone in Tokyo. He also has experience dating women. A man who was shocked when he couldn’t attend a matchmaking event, in Tokyo (photographed by Okuno Hi)
A man who was shocked when he couldn’t attend a matchmaking event, in Tokyo (photographed by Okuno Hi)
Thinking, “I want to get married and have a family,” he “gathered up all his courage” and applied to a matchmaking party he found on “tokyo futari story,” a matchmaking support website run by the metropolitan government. His application was initially accepted, but when he emailed the organizers to inform them that he had an intellectual disability, he received a cancellation reply saying, “According to the rules, participants must be healthy in both body and mind.” ◆ “I’m perfectly healthy…”
“I’m perfectly healthy too…” the man said, “I felt safe because the information was on the city’s website. I hope that events and society will become more accepting of people with disabilities.” A representative of the private organization organizing the event said in an interview, “We decided that the person did not meet the criteria of being ’healthy in body and mind.’ “Because there is also a stroll through the gardens, we also decline to admit people with chronic illnesses or injuries.” When asked whether he would have been able to participate if he had not disclosed his disability, he replied, “I might have been able to, but I haven’t received any inquiries so far.” The group also said it has received requests to hold matchmaking events that people with disabilities can participate in. He also stated, “Ideally, it would be nice if everyone could participate regardless of disabilities, but at present we are not equipped to accommodate that.” More in the source.
◆An event introduced on a marriage support website run by the Tokyo Metropolitan Government
“I didn’t think I’d be able to participate. I was hurt.” A man who works as an office worker in Tokyo said this and bowed his head. Although he has a mild intellectual disability, he graduated from a special needs school (now a special needs school) and has been working as a contract employee for over 20 years, living alone in Tokyo. He also has experience dating women. A man who was shocked when he couldn’t attend a matchmaking event, in Tokyo (photographed by Okuno Hi)
A man who was shocked when he couldn’t attend a matchmaking event, in Tokyo (photographed by Okuno Hi)
Thinking, “I want to get married and have a family,” he “gathered up all his courage” and applied to a matchmaking party he found on “tokyo futari story,” a matchmaking support website run by the metropolitan government. His application was initially accepted, but when he emailed the organizers to inform them that he had an intellectual disability, he received a cancellation reply saying, “According to the rules, participants must be healthy in both body and mind.” ◆ “I’m perfectly healthy…”
“I’m perfectly healthy too…” the man said, “I felt safe because the information was on the city’s website. I hope that events and society will become more accepting of people with disabilities.” A representative of the private organization organizing the event said in an interview, “We decided that the person did not meet the criteria of being ’healthy in body and mind.’ “Because there is also a stroll through the gardens, we also decline to admit people with chronic illnesses or injuries.” When asked whether he would have been able to participate if he had not disclosed his disability, he replied, “I might have been able to, but I haven’t received any inquiries so far.” The group also said it has received requests to hold matchmaking events that people with disabilities can participate in. He also stated, “Ideally, it would be nice if everyone could participate regardless of disabilities, but at present we are not equipped to accommodate that.” More in the source.
婚活イベントへの参加を主催者から断られた…どうして? 知的障害があることを伝えた契約社員男性のショック:東京新聞 TOKYO Web
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0005Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:21:00.44ID:YUDV5NFL0(1/2)
It’s stipulated by Japanese law, but if you mix them up arbitrarily, you will be fined. Article 20: Eugenic marriage consultation offices will be established to provide marriage consultation from the standpoint of eugenic protection, to promote the dissemination and improvement of knowledge about genetics and other matters necessary for eugenic protection, and to prevent the birth of inferior offspring.
0007Security Guard [lv.6] [Sprout].Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:22:03.55ID:0VXcV41H0(1/3)
Tokyo should have stated that they do not accept people with intellectual disabilities.
0008Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:22:53.85ID:Eau5n6fz0
You are free to choose to join, but you shouldn’t expect public funding.
0009Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:22:58.55ID:KRArVxsF0(1/2)
I haven’t had the chance to get tested until now, but I may actually be at a level where I could be diagnosed as intellectually disabled, so I thought I should give it a try.
0038Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:28:55.67ID:C29KtoS40
>>9
There was a guy on this thread who said he only got his wife tested.
There was a guy on this thread who said he only got his wife tested.
0011Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:23:39.13ID:6bWHuT180(1/4)
You might fall victim to a romance scam, like the nurse who was falsely accused by the police during an investigation.
0012Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:23:47.26ID:xnz1P9X40
I guess we’ll have to plan a separate event that’s accessible to people with disabilities.
0014Security Guard [lv.7] [Sprout].Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:24:24.77ID:UUBvPMnh0
Because I don’t understand that…
0015Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:24:27.30ID:m5/feEdK0
No matter how good a person is, it would be a problem if their child was born with an intellectual disability.
0016Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:24:32.29ID:usD/o8OL0
If I had participated it would have hurt me even more.
0021Security Guard [lv.25].Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:26:08.92ID:d0Yg4KCA0
Is it ok for LGBT people to participate?
0025Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:26:39.59ID:MEMKCN2e0
Tanukana, who held a mixer for weaker men from Tokyo, was more conscientious.
0026Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:26:45.55ID:y2zMU6cD0
You can participate, but please make sure to announce it to the other participants.
0076Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:36:33.52ID:VPYmrPIE0
>>26
Well, if it were mandatory to make it public, people would say it’s discriminatory lol.
Well, if it were mandatory to make it public, people would say it’s discriminatory lol.
0027Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:27:11.50ID:JAgzYtnk0(1/3)
I shouldn’t have told him.
0030Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:27:49.80ID:dq78oICV0(3/5)
Oh no, Tokyo has messed up. This is clearly a case of discrimination.
0031Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:27:56.64ID:KPWU465D0
It seems like society is becoming more and more “intolerant”…
It’s sad (´・ω・`).
It’s sad (´・ω・`).
0040Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:29:38.48ID:tq5bDLVa0(1/2)
>>31
In the Showa era, they would have said, “I know it’s impossible, but it’ll make money, so it’s okay,” and made them join.
If it was impossible from the start, they wouldn’t let them join because they’ve become “tolerant” in a sense.
In the Showa era, they would have said, “I know it’s impossible, but it’ll make money, so it’s okay,” and made them join.
If it was impossible from the start, they wouldn’t let them join because they’ve become “tolerant” in a sense.
0032Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:28:00.99ID:+tfgsdx50
I’m curious to see how feminists and other left-wingers will respond to this lol. No matter how they answer, it’ll be self-contradictory, so I don’t think they’ll touch on it.
0034Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:28:07.11ID:PCt4Es/k0
We won’t accept people with low education or low income.
0054Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:32:50.74ID:kKZNod750
>>34
Well, yeah…
Well, yeah…
0035Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:28:28.08ID:IfF83CQi0(1/5)
The LDP politicians and their supporters are like mild idiots, but
you wouldn’t know it unless they said something
and they’re doing a good job.
you wouldn’t know it unless they said something
and they’re doing a good job.
0037Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:28:39.57ID:3nrARdfi0
Isn’t this eugenics in a broad sense?
It would be interesting to try this out in court.
It would be interesting to try this out in court.
0039Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:29:25.67ID:kMsSy/wJ0(2/2)
He passed the screening without disclosing that he has an intellectual disability. Then he came forward and had his application cancelled. The story was then published in the Tokyo Shimbun newspaper. It seems like this was all planned backwards from the beginning.
0041Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:29:40.31ID:xd3zocV70(1/9)
I’ve never used this, but if you have a disability certificate, you need to write it down properly, otherwise you’ll get into trouble.
0043Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:30:22.15ID:JBPRQvh90(1/4)
If you have a rehabilitation handbook, it doesn’t mean you are “healthy in body and mind.”
0044Security Guard [lv.6] [Sprout].Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:30:39.98ID:0VXcV41H0(2/3)
All citizens should be screened at around 15 years old and have the presence or absence of disabilities recorded on their My Number cards.
0045Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:31:16.40ID:vdZStlNx0(1/2)
You could win if you take it to court. That’s a pain.
0047Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:31:36.35ID:ZRS0vyE20
It makes sense that if something goes wrong, the organizers will be held responsible.
0048Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:31:39.46ID:+6Pjcs/d0
Poor thing.
0051Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:31:54.32ID:JBPRQvh90(2/4)
I refuse because it will be passed on to my children.
0060Security Guard [lv.10] [Sprout].Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:34:22.95ID:dTh/99F40(2/4)
Wouldn’t it be better to choose a woman with a mild intellectual disability?
0064Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:34:54.71ID:fSDS+FsH0
Governor Koike, what a mess. She just had her glasses bowed after the Eugenic Protection Law was ruled unconstitutional.
0068Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:35:32.01ID:YJknHiRR0
Well, it seems like the Tokyo Shimbun is a politically correct bulldozer.
0069Anonymous Donburako.Aug. 11, 2024 (Sun) 06:35:43.26ID:vdZStlNx0(2/2)
I think the company will receive guidance and an apology from the Tokyo Metropolitan Government and that will be the end of it.
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