Are women who say things like， “You’re not popular！” or “You don’t even have a girlfriend！” “dangerous”？ The reason why they suddenly launch “persona attacks” when they get angry．
0001@Old Man Friends Club ★ Security Guard [lv.7] [Sprout].Aug. 16, 2024 (Fri) 01:04:31.08ID:kG7SPS4e9
When you’re annoyed or upset with a guy, you might say, “What? The way you say it. You’re not popular,” or “That’s seriously impossible. Have you ever encountered a woman who responded with, “That’s why you can’t get a girlfriend?” What’s unique about this type of woman is that she will suddenly bring up the topic of “popularity/unpopularity” and “attack” the other person, regardless of the previous topic. While this probably isn’t that common in the real world, it seems to be an everyday sight on social media. On x (formerly Twitter), you can often see male and female users engaging in “resba” (reply battles) where they exchange their thoughts with each other, but there is one expression that is often brought up by the women in these exchanges. “Whoa, what is this guy? He probably doesn’t have any opportunities to interact with women in real life.” “I can say with certainty that this guy isn’t popular with women.” “Well, does that mean he’s not popular with women?” “There’s no need to pay any attention to him. “He’s probably just a gloomy, nerdy guy with no girlfriend anyway.” “Talking about not being popular has no value.” As soon as they find out the other person is a guy, even if the topic is unrelated, they suddenly bring up “not being popular” or “not having a girlfriend” as a way to “attack” him. This is a situation that can be said to be a familiar sight in certain circles. There are also many scenes where, in response to a reply from the man asking “Does that matter now?”, she responds with “That’s right on the mark, so I’m panicking lol.” Why did this phrase suddenly appear? Men have been speculating on the matter. “That must be a killer phrase, trying to do whatever she can to hurt the other person.” “She got sidetracked and ended up in a situation where she had no choice but to attack the other person’s character.” “It’s interesting that she thinks being popular is a character attack in the first place, showing how much importance women place on romance.” “No, even before she even thinks about romance, it’s pretty arrogant to think that being appreciated by us “women” (= being popular) is so valuable.” “I don’t think I’d want to be popular with a woman who suddenly starts saying things like, ’You’re not popular!’…” Some women often use expressions like “I can’t stand it,” but expressions like the ones above may come out when they follow their own sensibilities and feelings. On the other hand, men tend to place a strong emphasis on argument, especially within a group and in a response battle, so there may be a mismatch between the way the two groups think. Continued by Lasisa Editorial Department 2024/08/15.
>>1 Any woman who says something like this has definitely never been popular with men. When I was a student, I was at the bottom of the school caste system.
>>5 In fact, someone bursts out laughing When someone interrupts someone during an explanation of statistical data “He’s not popular! He doesn’t even have a girlfriend!” It’s just a joke Are you trying to say that your wife and children are imaginary? And it would mean that the government has acknowledged the existence of a fantasy family registry And in the first place, this has nothing to do with the main point of the discussion.
A while ago, there was a woman on the Onna board who was attacking Ishihara Shintaro for being a virgin, but I wonder whose child Yoshizumi was she supposed to be?
Most women over 35 are nothing more than deteriorating old men. If you place too much importance on the measure of popularity, you’ll be in for a disastrous experience.
In a response battle, there are always people who try to shift the point, regardless of gender. A response battle isn’t about who’s right, it’s about how to win the other person’s argument, so it seems like the person who is right ends up losing.
If you say that it’s wrong if we don’t pay equally because men and women are equal, you won’t be able to give a logical response, so don’t ever say that🤣.
It’s similar to when anti-Korean sentiment was popular and you were treated like a Korean if you pointed out something bad about Japan. I think it’s called nationality shaming. Even now, if you say something negative about Japan, you’ll see people telling you to get out of Japan. It’s place of residence shaming. There are tons of Japanese people living overseas these days, especially on online message boards.
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