[Marriage] 52.8% of people say they “don’t need” an engagement ring! We agree with this, beating out “it doesn’t seem meaningful” and “I’d like to allocate that expense to other things.”

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0001Boiled eggs★.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:21:39.45ID:eIipRwWF9
Eye Jewelry Umaki Co., Ltd. recently released the results of a survey conducted nationwide on 106 men and women aged 20 to 60 asking “Do you need an engagement ring?” When asked, “Have you purchased an engagement ring?” 52.8% answered “Yes, I have purchased one,” while 5.7% answered “I plan to purchase one but haven’t bought one yet,” 4.7% answered “I’m undecided about purchasing one,” and 36.8% answered “I won’t purchase one.” When asked “Do you think an engagement ring is necessary?” 47.2% answered “I think it’s necessary” and 52.8% answered “I think it’s not necessary,” with those who said “I don’t think it’s necessary” slightly outnumbering those who said it’s not necessary. When those who felt they needed one were asked why, the most common answer was “I admired engagement rings” (13.2%), followed by “I thought it was natural to buy one” (12.3%) and “I wanted to make my partner happy” (11.3%), revealing that the main reasons for wanting an engagement ring were the people’s admiration for it, their values, and their feelings for their partner. Among those who answered that they did not need an engagement ring, the most common reason given was “It’s not something I would wear on a daily basis” (22.6%), followed by “I don’t see any meaning in an engagement ring” (13.2%) and “I’d like to allocate that expense to other areas” (8.5%). In response to the question, “How did you choose your engagement ring?” 58.5% overwhelmingly answered “We discussed it together and chose it,” followed by 20.8% who answered “I chose it myself” and 20.8% who answered “My partner chose it.” [Yorozu News]
2024/9/17 (Tue) 8:10.

婚約指輪「不要」が52.8%!「意味を感じない」「他の費用に割り当てたい」を抑えた1位に共感(よろず~ニュース) - Yahoo!ニュース
株式会社アイジュエリー・ウマキはこのほど、全国の20~60代の男女106人を対象に行った「婚約指輪は必要か」に関するアンケート結果を公表した。  「婚約指輪を購入しましたか?」と聞いたとこと、「
0064Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:46:38.65ID:TIweZFqx0(1/2)
>>1
Please give the ratio for men and women.
I won’t post the URL, but the same company did a study last year in which the ratio of people who want rings is women >> men.
When asked “Do you want to get married?” 52% of women answered “Yes,” while 45% of men answered the same. Furthermore, when those who answered “I want to get married” were asked “When you get married in the future, would you want an engagement ring or a wedding ring?” 59.6% of women, or about 60%, answered “I would like a wedding ring,” while the same figure was true for 40% of men.
0111Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:59:11.87ID:emS9heIC0
>>1
Why not just give her a Line stamp, calling it a virtual engagement ring?
0002Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:22:26.31ID:cAsgBzdp0
I don’t need a ring, or a donation, or a ceremony, or a reception.
0084Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:50:24.62ID:E864e4Bn0
>>2
So true.
No matter how extravagant the wedding is, those who want to break up will break up immediately, and those who don’t want to break up won’t break up.
0004Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:23:40.49ID:ZP8NsmLs0
However, if they don’t give it to him, he uses that as an excuse to hit them.
0005Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:24:43.20ID:2Y+Qyg7j0
An engagement ring is fine, but a wedding ring is necessary, right?
0009Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:26:08.25ID:quvYefHL0
It’s not a wedding ring it’s an engagement ring.
0010Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:26:42.88ID:ZyB5tP/B0
I don’t need an engagement ring and I didn’t get one (I told her I didn’t need to buy one)
We didn’t even have a wedding ceremony
We just invited our parents and siblings over for a dinner party.
0073Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:48:02.81ID:IJ0NhUHN0
>>10
Poor
What a boring life.
0116Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 10:00:30.39ID:+05PmMfU0
>>10
My wife said she didn’t want anything, so that’s how it turned out
We didn’t take any photos
I just asked for wedding rings and went to buy them
Neither of us are wearing them.
0013Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:27:23.32ID:tUfkkyMR0(2/2)
Poor rich couple, they’ve been given more rings than they have fingers on their hands.
0014Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:27:24.56ID:GQKxVBoa0
People often say that their husbands don’t wear them, but I think there are more women who don’t wear them either.
0023Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:32:43.80ID:bFvI0JSb0
>>14
People will say that you’re showing off or trying to spite some old lady who’s left unclaimed.
0017Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:28:56.44ID:96LJDNQS0
I wonder if this is a culture that has been successfully established.
0019Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:30:03.11ID:upJMSv1c0
Japanese people have become poorer, and the cost of weddings, funerals, and other ceremonial occasions has been drastically cut in recent years.
0020Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:30:20.33ID:n59yzTdi0
People around me who have weddings and rings are getting divorced all the time, but I’m not getting divorced like I am, even though I don’t have a ceremony or a ring and people are against my marriage, so I don’t really understand marriage.
0041Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:39:36.47ID:EUx7Uh/M0
>>20
Exactly the same lol
We didn’t do the engagement ring, wedding ring, dowry, reception, ceremony… but we had a cute baby and are having a great time
We took wedding photos thinking that the baby would want to see them someday
and we even went on a honeymoon.
0021Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:30:44.37ID:ICaaOWQQ0
A wedding isn’t necessary. If it’s just a family meeting, a meal is fine.
0022Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:32:07.54ID:XToOyatO0
The wedding and funeral ceremonies are over.
0025Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:34:03.31ID:toEu5h060
Money isn’t an issue, and it probably depends on her personality. I gave it to her when I proposed, thinking that it would be one of the things we build together, like a determination to never turn back and trust.
0026Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:34:12.74ID:2/d86ZcW0
I don’t know much about this, but what is the custom for an engagement ring when you get married?
0029Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:35:51.21ID:8wQyD+Na0
>>26
Sell to Daikichi.
0034Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:37:41.10ID:HM+jAXbI0
>>26
It becomes just a ring
It’s worn at friends’ weddings and is basically a dead item
That’s why it seems like more and more people are replacing rings with watches these days.
0037Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:38:14.70ID:9WNGm/Jd0
>>26
A cursed ring that you wear until you die.
0071Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:47:52.93ID:WTW+ov7A0
>>26
Nowadays, there are many designs that can be worn together with wedding rings, so some people wear them on formal occasions.
0027Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:34:56.25ID:A06tMUYR0
It’s like an engagement ring or a ehomaki that a company forces on you.
0028Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:35:22.74ID:eDNYCGQs0
Diamond rings for engagements are a brainwashing advert for De Beers, and there are tons of diamond mines, and they can actually be made artificially to be more precise than natural ones, so they’re not really worth anything.
0030Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:36:30.02ID:W/OOFl6F0
The rings are part of the same campaign as the Doyo no Ushi Day event.
0031Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:36:55.02ID:JSBp2x9j0
I wonder how it feels for a couple to go through all the traditional, expensive rituals and then get divorced so quickly.
0032Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:36:59.46ID:m05jdlYz0
Well, in reality, I’ll be wearing a wedding ring, so I guess I don’t need one.
0033Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:37:20.37ID:Vm2BUgvP0(1/7)
It’s gross to see a middle-aged man wearing a ring.
0043Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:39:48.69ID:Vt4/AIRP0
>>33
That’s a wedding ring.
0035Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:37:51.10ID:PW4Sg6pS0
When a woman I know got engaged, she said, “I don’t want an engagement ring, I want you to buy a brand-name ring just for me,” and the engagement was broken off.
0036Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:37:58.89ID:QygTzvar0
No need for ceremonies or trips. Stop trying to act like you’re advanced.
0038Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:38:15.60ID:c9Djqcf00
Sour grapes.
0039Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:38:55.08ID:Vm2BUgvP0(2/7)
Wedding rings are gross too. Especially when guys wear them it’s really gross because rings = slave rings lol.
0042Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:39:39.35ID:vzp9MU4W0
>>39
9060’s kid-o-ji is a shut-in and unemployed guy…lol.
0040Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:39:08.21ID:CkQFkL720
I bought it because we had an engagement ceremony, but I don’t need it because it’s so expensive. I saw on social media that wearing both an engagement ring and a wedding ring was popular, and I wanted one, so I was forced to buy one.
0044Security Guard [lv.8] [Sprout].Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:40:15.62ID:BL9jVSii0
If you take it to a pawn shop you’ll only get 1/10 of the purchase price lol.
0050Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:43:24.58ID:++k2OdKY0(1/2)
>>44
Well, the cost rate for gemstones is around 10% or so,
so it’s a fair purchase price.
0067Security Guard [lv.8] [Sprout].Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:47:25.24ID:2e0LuTHY0
>>50
Are you stupid? Can you make it with a 10% cost rate? You idiot who doesn’t know anything.
0110Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:58:50.83ID:++k2OdKY0(2/2)
>>67
What’s the relationship between the cost of a gemstone and the processing fee paid by the person who makes it, you idiot lol.
0051Anonymous Donburako.Sep. 17, 2024 (Tue) 09:43:26.08ID:v5BSEsG60(1/7)
I bought it as a keepsake because my partner wanted it. I don’t think it’s a big deal if it costs a few hundred thousand yen. I don’t know about people who plan to get married multiple times though.
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Other languages: 【結婚】婚約指輪「不要」が52.8%!「意味を感じない」「他の費用に割り当てたい」を抑えた1位に共感, [Matrimonio] ¡El 52,8% dijo que no necesita un anillo de compromiso! Empatizamos con la respuesta del primer lugar, que fue “No le veo ningún significado” y “Quiero destinarlo a otros gastos”. ’’

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