When it comes to the cost of a first date， women say， “I don’t want to pay a single yen，” and “The man should pay for it all”．．． What are men’s true thoughts？ Revealed by a survey of 897 men and women looking for marriage．
0001Capital Region Tiger ★.Oct. 8, 2024 (Tue) 10:29:06.30ID:8pQow8H/9
Omikare (Suginami-ku, Tokyo), which operates the matchmaking information site “Omikare,” conducted a survey on “the cost of a first date.” The results have been announced. “I want him to show me his cool side before we start dating.” The survey was conducted online from August 26 to September 3, 2024, targeting members of the site (male and female). We received valid responses from 897 people. The “pay-to-treat” debate is a frequent topic on social media, and when asked “how should the cost of the first date be paid for?” the most common answer from men was “I think the man should pay more than the rest” (34.2%). This was followed by “I think men and women should split the bill” (26.8%). While no man answered that he would like women to pay “more” or “the whole amount,” it seems that many men would like “women to pay some of the cost.” According to the company, reasons given included, “It’s unpleasant when they act as if they expect to be treated,” and “It seems like they’re only interested in being treated, so it doesn’t seem like they’re serious.” On the other hand, the most common answer among women was “men should pay the full amount” (29.6%). When combined with the next most common response of “I think men should pay more of the cost” (27.9%), this comes to nearly 60% of all women, indicating that there are many women who think that “men should pay more of the cost of dating.” For the full text, see the source. Last updated: 10/6 (Sun) 19:15 ★1 2024/10/08 (Tue) 08:26:30.10 Previous thread.
It’s an old-fashioned way of thinking, but when I was dating my wife, I owned everything, and when we got married I gave all my bankbook and seals to her, so now she owns them.
If it’s good, they’ll put it out normally. I can see why there are women on 5ch who complain and insult men. There are probably a very small number of good women on 5ch, but good women don’t complain in places like this.
The cost of dating is so little that it honestly doesn’t matter to me. Before I got married, I paid for all the dates, but my wife and I split all the household expenses and the mortgage, so the expenses I incurred when I was single were just a margin of error.
Well, if I wasn’t interested I wouldn’t ask her out on a date. And if I do ask her out, the man should pay, right? I don’t know what to do if the woman asks me out.
Be careful, because if a woman wants you to treat her, she will start interfering with how you spend your money once you start dating. She even interferes with the man’s spending on his hobbies.
What’s up with women who only cry out about gender inequality when it’s convenient for them? Aren’t there equality between men and women??? No wonder the number of unmarried people is increasing in droves.
If you’re on the marriage market and you say things like this, you’re declaring, “I’m a high-priced defective product.” Is it really a good thing that you’ll never sell?
>>33 I’m sure you’re also going on blind dates and looking for a partner in real life, so isn’t it a strategy to aim high on the site without compromising?
For a woman, a man who asks to split the bill is an easy criterion for judging whether she will not see him again, even if she likes his appearance, and for a man, after treating him the first time, his reaction afterwards is a criterion for judging whether he is grateful or thoughtful. It’s really that simple.
There are women who go on gourmet tours in the name of finding a partner, and the first place they go to is a popular restaurant that is so popular it’s impossible to get a reservation.
What should I do as a 35-year-old virgin who has never even had a first date in his life because he always turns me down when he asks me out on a date?
Aren’t they going to end up being late for marriage if they think they have to pay for everything from the start?
Plus, if they want to “show off their cool side,” then even men would feel bad if they made the woman pay for everything, so they want to “show off their modest side” The conditions are the same for both men and women.
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