“When did I start thinking in terms of age?” When I was looking for a partner, I realized I was being tied down by age! Is age important in marriage?

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0001Boiled eggs★.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:51:19.55ID:KsbDUaxM9
While searching for a husband, Aiko met a younger man named Kouki on a dating app. He’s not bad looking and works for a major IT company, so I thought maybe it would be okay! But then…
We went out to eat together and to my surprise, we split the bill down to the last yen!! At first glance, it seems like a shocking “split-the-bill man” and a “Showa-era woman” who takes it for granted that she will be treated would never be able to understand each other, but little by little they come to understand each other and start to be attracted to each other… A romantic comedy manga about a thirty-something woman who is still stuck in old values ​​and is looking for a husband, and who updates her values ​​through her love for a rational, science-oriented man. “The story of a woman still stuck in the Showa era and who believes that ’women deserve to be treated’” The first volume of this work has just been released and is attracting a lot of attention. We spoke to the author, Natsuko Konishi, about the behind-the-scenes stories of its creation. ■An interview with author Natsuko Konishi
I spoke with Natsuko Konishi, the author of “A story about a woman still stuck in the Showa era who believes that ’women deserve to be treated,’ and her search for a husband.” –The story of this work is about Aiko, who is looking for a husband, and the contents are quite realistic, but have you yourself ever been on the hunt for a husband? Or is the story based on stories from people around you?
Actually, I have had experience looking for a husband. Not all of the episodes in the story are my own experiences, but I have expanded on and included things I felt while searching for a partner, and as part of my search for a partner I have looked at many related books and videos, so perhaps the story is able to include real-life situations regarding the search for a partner in real life. –Since you have experience in matchmaking…are there any tips you’ve noticed for finding a partner?
I think that people who are unstable like Aiko would be better off consulting a professional counselor rather than using an app. So-called matching apps don’t necessarily only contain people who are seriously looking for a marriage partner… In the marriage market, age is a common criterion that everyone uses, but I think being able to talk to the other person with consideration for them and communicate normally even when meeting for the first time is surprisingly difficult, and is also important. –You mentioned age, but I thought Aiko’s words, “When did I start thinking in terms of age rather than personality or compatibility?” were particularly realistic. Have you ever felt the same way, Konishi-san?
I, too, had a set age range in mind when looking for a partner. Many people, both men and women, are concerned about their partner’s age, but this seems to be especially noticeable among men. I’m sure there are some people who simply like young people, but I think the biggest issue is childbirth. I have heard angry voices saying, “Men judge women by their age!” and I myself have sometimes felt that it was unfair, but I can’t help but think that to a certain extent it is unavoidable… Continue reading below
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「“年齢”で考えるようになったのいつからだっけ」婚活中、気づくと年齢に縛られていた!?結婚において年齢は重要なのか【作者インタビューも】(ウォーカープラス) - Yahoo!ニュース
婚活中にマッチングアプリで年下男子・こうきと出会ったアイコ。見た目も悪くないし、大手IT企業勤めだし、いいかも!?って思っていたら…一緒に行った食事でまさかの「1円単位のワリカン」をしてきた!!衝撃
0015Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:54:55.30ID:Kpf3yv+j0
>>1
If we could stay in the same place, housing costs would be cheaper lol.
0117Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:23:10.35ID:zhjYx6Ie0
>>1
You care about the other person’s age too.
0002Security guard [lv.15].Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:51:50.58ID:GQuTdH8E0
Yes, it’s important. Done.
0057Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:07:14.59ID:K4BGJ7Up0
>>2
So true.
0067Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:09:13.20ID:NkPHAt+G0(1/2)
>>2
It’s finished so I can’t make a sequel.
0003Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:52:16.80ID:yPTAaKt20(1/21)
You only realize something important after you’ve lost it.
0005Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:52:57.73ID:RHlo1PZy0
The data converting women’s age into income was easy to understand.
0007Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:53:14.31ID:GVmiZt1T0
Does age matter in marriage?
Stupid question.
0008Security guard [lv.51].Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:53:52.77ID:aQlhGzzw0
Another pointless marriage-related manga? There were a ton of unemployed part-timers, like aspiring manga artists, at the marriage-related manga market.
0010Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:53:59.79ID:DuS1wYnw0
It’s too late for Showa-era women to start looking for marriage now.
0013Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:54:22.28ID:ltKzyZ8C0
You guys want a wife who’s like a drinking buddy, right?
0014Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:54:32.98ID:UTwPLJlh0
Once you turn 25, you can no longer get married of your own free will.
0016Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:55:21.04ID:0TZb+LbN0
Once you’re over 30, anything you do has to be considered in relation to how much time you have left.
0017Security Guard [lv.16].Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:55:46.49ID:25iftNNS0
Age is important. Things are going to get worse…
0018Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:56:03.46ID:NvuiQx0a0(1/2)
Actually, it’s easier with a cute guy.
0020Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:56:29.46ID:jiwq+dCz0
That’s true (´・ω・`).
0022Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:57:26.37ID:NvuiQx0a0(2/2)
From a guy’s point of view, it’s easier to be with a cute guy than a bba.
0023Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:57:34.92ID:mLlG6DEO0
That said, while there are people in their 20s who think this is a bit too much, it’s also true that there are people in their 40s who want to get into the swing of things.
0026Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:58:30.78ID:lGoQkFqw0
Here comes another surefire topic lol.
0027Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:58:57.63ID:HH9JF2HQ0(1/5)
Height, education and annual income are important.
0028Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:59:21.93ID:DKB70aht0
She is attracted to a younger man who is good-looking and earns a lot of money…is this like a Narou novel?
0029Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 13:59:22.18ID:mI1RTua70
If you want to have children, age is an important factor.
0031Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:00:45.19ID:gICnjj+b0(1/5)
If you want to marry a young girl, you have to do it while you’re young. It’s difficult when you’re older.
0037Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:02:52.64ID:yPTAaKt20(4/21)
>>31
Nozaki: “If you have money, you can.”
Sudo: “Yeah, I guess so.”
0032Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:00:49.09ID:ei8GqUFJ0
Women have children, so 30 is the limit.
0034Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:02:25.84ID:iEQOlwd50
A man has no time limit as long as he has money, status, or looks, but a woman is basically finished once she loses the ability to give birth.
0040Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:03:09.32ID:2ARsq4OZ0(5/7)
>>34
Misunderstood old man.
0061Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:08:20.88ID:HH9JF2HQ0(2/5)
>>34
Older men are more likely to have children with autism, so it’s irresponsible.
0039Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:03:08.23ID:TOlI3K550(1/2)
Marriage means you’ll be given preferential treatment if you have children, so isn’t it common sense that women should only have children up to 35 and men up to 45? Men can have children even older, but even if they can, there are issues like disabled children.
0041Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:03:13.69ID:asC9sGor0(2/11)
One day, a prince on a white horse will appear! (laughs)
0055Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:06:48.06ID:yPTAaKt20(6/21)
>>41
The prince on a white horse goes to pick up the young lady (up to 24 years old).
0042Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:03:23.38ID:f0pcACty0
Once I turned 35, I was left alone at matchmaking parties.
0044Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:03:49.42ID:2ARsq4OZ0(7/7)
I prefer younger men to older men.
0048Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:04:36.95ID:yPTAaKt20(5/21)
What were you doing as a single man up until that age anyway?

Man (40) “Work” < Section chief
Woman (30) “Work” < Dispatch
This low-level battle is what marriage hunting is all about.

0071Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:10:32.36ID:CL1fW5l60(2/2)
>>48
Is being a section chief at 40 really the lowest level?
I think it’s enough if you’re a regular employee and doing your job properly.
0050Security Guard [lv.7] [Sprout].Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:05:20.98ID:kefMLYVG0
To begin with, matchmaking is just a comeback for losers.
0056Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:06:52.37ID:6ITJisN00(2/2)
>>50
When you put it like that it sounds pretty cool (´・ω・`).
0059Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:07:44.65ID:dk4WHMOf0
My parents care about that too. What about grandchildren?
0088Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:13:05.98ID:gUOF0KWQ0(3/4)
There are only these kinds of kid-uncles in the marriage market. Mama’s boys. Unpopular. Selfish. Marriage hunting is about choosing from among them. If you don’t like it, then just fall in love and get married.
0089Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:13:21.46ID:KKs2H2yn0
Food that makes you 5 years younger → Women flock to it
Makeup that makes you 5 years younger → Women flock to it
Women themselves have given the answer, but when you point it out, they get mad.
0100Anonymous Donburako.Oct. 12, 2024 (Sat) 14:15:21.52ID:h+n8Ac340(1/3)
Cinderella’s sisters and stepmother may dress up but they cannot win the prince’s love.
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Other languages: 「“年齢”で考えるようになったのいつからだっけ?」婚活中、気づくと年齢に縛られていた!?結婚において年齢は重要なのか, “¿Cuándo empezaste a pensar en términos de ’edad’?” Cuando buscabas matrimonio, ¿te diste cuenta de que estabas limitado por la edad?

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